Dealing with our own stuff is challenging enough without dragging things along that aren't ours.
Stop Fixating on What Put You in Transition
It's easy to get stuck fixating on what put us in transition, but it isn't helpful. Here are my thoughts on that...
A Lesson from my Storage Building
Here is a lesson offered from my experience with my storage building.
The Unpopular, but Necessary Ingredient for Change - Perseverance
Everyone seems to want a quick fix for everything, but the reality is that perseverance is a key to breakthrough in times of transition
Dealing with Discouragement
There are ups and downs in times of transition making it easy to get discouraged. Here's some thoughts on dealing with that...
Wanting vs Desiring Change
Just wanting something to change rarely accomplishes anything, but when we begin to actually desire it, things begin to happen.
Make the Investment of Getting Well
When transition wasn't our decision, there will be pain. A first step forward is making the investment of getting well.
How Do You Talk to Yourself?
How we talk to ourselves can be a huge factor in times of transition and seasons of change. Here are my thoughts on that...
Don't Forget to Celebrate Progress
This is one thing we can't neglect in times of transition, but we often do. It is a key to healthy and beneficial change.
We Have Met the Enemy and They are Us
Many of the obstacle we face in transition are internal ones. Here's my thoughts on that...
You May Have To Grow To Move On
Sometimes, the abilities that got us this far, won't get us to the next place we want to be. Here's my thoughts on that...
You're Not the Only One
It's easy to feel like we are the only one going through a season of transition. Here's why that's not a good place to be.
Compliance vs Embracing a Process
Compliance is the lowest form of engagement in a process of change. Here's why...
Why It Matters To Know Why
The literary device of Who, What, When, Where, and Why is used to get people to engage in your story. However, in transition, "Why" should be one of the first questions you answer.
Are You Wasting Time?
There's nothing worse than working hard at something, then learning it doesn't matter or that it was just a waste of time, especially in times of change.
Be Honest with Yourself
Often the most damaging lies are the ones we tell to ourselves. Honest evaluation is a key to healthy change.
Learning is Optional
A lesson offered is not a lesson learned. It's up to us to recognize and learn from the lessons each season offers.
A Key to Making Changes
It's normal to see a new year as an opportunity to make changes, but we rarely succeed in making them. Here is a key thing that will help us actually make a change.
Getting Out of Your Sulking Spot
Isolation and feeling like we are the only one going through something is a setup. We can get out of our sulking spot. Here are my thoughts on that...